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Are you a Victor or Victim?

Brody WelteComment
Are you a Victor or Victim?

Victor - noun

  1. a person who has overcome or defeated an adversary; conqueror.
  2. a winner in any struggle or contest.

Victim - noun

  1. a person who is deceived or cheated, as by his or her own emotions or ignorance, by the dishonesty of others, or by some impersonal agency

A victim has problems but blames others for them.

A victor has problems but looks to solve them.

A victim has bad things happen to them and becomes resentful.

A victor has bad things happen to them and is thankful for the growth it will produce.

A victim gets knocked down, stays there and asks why me?

A victor gets knocked down and gets back up stronger.

A victim turns to others to solve their issues.

A victor looks to help others solve their issues. 

A victim experiences failure, gives up and figures it was not meant to be.

A victor experiences failure, readjusts and then keeps going.

The difference between a Victor and Victim are your choices which are determined by your attitude. 

So are you a victor or a victim?