Victor - noun
- a person who has overcome or defeated an adversary; conqueror.
- a winner in any struggle or contest.
Victim - noun
- a person who is deceived or cheated, as by his or her own emotions or ignorance, by the dishonesty of others, or by some impersonal agency
A victim has problems but blames others for them.
A victor has problems but looks to solve them.
A victim has bad things happen to them and becomes resentful.
A victor has bad things happen to them and is thankful for the growth it will produce.
A victim gets knocked down, stays there and asks why me?
A victor gets knocked down and gets back up stronger.
A victim turns to others to solve their issues.
A victor looks to help others solve their issues.
A victim experiences failure, gives up and figures it was not meant to be.
A victor experiences failure, readjusts and then keeps going.
The difference between a Victor and Victim are your choices which are determined by your attitude.
So are you a victor or a victim?